Kuching Trip 14/7

Let Pictures do the talking

Kuching I am coming!!

I am not sure where the gut come from, I have made my decision to travel to kuching alone without knowing anyone there.

Yup. Alone

Again. Yup. Without knowing anyone there.


Maybe life just need the sparks like this.

When you know you gonna to somewhere quite far and leaving the old and stinky bed behind, you will start to miss it,

at the same time expecting a better bed, a new bed and expecting something unexpected.

It is so complex and complicated like the mixture of tea and coffee, you like the flavor of tea, yet like the the bitter of coffee, tea coffee, coffee tea, coffee tea coffee, tea coffee tea...

in the middle of tasting the mixture of tea and coffee, you never know what will happen is...a new product of tea and coffee.....

Anti Bitch story

Our teacher always teach us, when you sincere and work hard on you, finally you will archive what you want.

Your friends always say, " be confident lah, you sure can do it one, dont so easy to give up, you so silly fellow" . It means if we really trust ourself in doing something, we finally will get what we want and just keep patient...

Our Parents will also say, "why give up?why and why?continue doing it, what happened? why cannot continue doing it? It sounds different with our teacher and friends saying as your parents will find out why you give up and base on your reason of your give up, give you another reason to continue--and let you not to give up.
But it fact,is that real in our life?


Does it means no matter how hard to woo a girl, with flowers, chocolates and even you use 24hours to bake a 4 interlayer yet interlayer tirammsu, the girl will really give you chance? to be your bf?

Doest it means, we give beg our boss to increase our salary ,everyday work like a machine in front of him, and free OT always, yet make coffee and breakfast to him every morning on his table, never give up, 24 hours, 365days,does it really works?

For case number 1, the girl will only think you are pretty boring. They will only blame other element to get rid of you, below are their golden phase:
" We do not have the feel" " I dont know our personality match" "You deserve a better one, i am so lousy for you"

But in fact, she still eat your layers tirammsu while talking to you, and accepted your flowers and chocolate. WHY?

Because it is FFFFFFFFFFRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEE what!!!! what a nerd.


Second case: You request boss to increase your salary but continuing show how capability you are. You shown him the talent on how to make good coffee every morning and good baker( how to make a rich sandwich which full of vitamins). The end result is useless.
He will only think that you are someone who wanna SHOW OFF, and try to POISON him with your sincere breakfast, and start to think what is the MOTIVE you treat him so good, or are you a GAY?
The final result: YOU are fired, without your OT claims.
Best result: You are promoted but work at Saudi Arab Alone.

You may sound not agree on it, while, what i am doing now is i am writing this blog at Cheras Maluri Old Town Cafe, and experience the result of my SINCERITY.

I booked this girl for photoshoot since she is 16. She has been promised years by years that she will let me do a photoshoot with her. To show my sincerity, i let her manage the time anytime she wants, anywhere will do, and...whatever also can.
I planned day and night, prepare things all and all. She put airplane once, i forgive her directly like a mighty buddha, ---forgiving is a best practice for us. second times, again---i forgive her like Allah, forgiving a person is a good practice we should do always, we will get back good things in return.
After so many years. Today is the 3th time.

For this special occasion, i prepared myself as usual and depart earlier to avoid lateness, prepared a nasi lemak and coffee to her to suprise her.

Am i sincere enough? I never scold when she FFK me and I never blame, accept like it is, like a generous and so girl called--Gentleman

End Result: I need to call her to know What happened, and she only know she cannot make it. Reason: Yesterday clubbing

Question: You can cancel the appointment, why have we have to call her back to know confirm while it is her responsibility to tell you she cannot make it?

Answer: She Sms me " Sorry" I guess i have received this by many girls even a girl in my blog list too, does Sorry really means All? or explaining All??

Weird. I guess girls think guys should take all responsibility when dating. Yes i mean all.
It means even why she cannot go to meet you because yesterday is raining. Accept her excuses.

That is the meaning of ALL.

But think again. Guys are too fucking girlish nowadays. They accept what a girl said no matter how.In the opinion of guys, it can cheer the girl, if she is happy, he will do anything to cheer the girl.

In girls opinion, the guy is a Free maid, Free taxi driver.. and Mobile ATM.

Guys, do you know your pamper will really spoilt the girl??
What we are receiving now is the end result of your pampered last time?
The girls has been conditioned as she will think the next guy "SHOULD" treat her better than the previous one.

Just like when give you kid a present when he get a good result in school.

It means, u give him Walkman when he get a good result in PMR
Give him a CD player in SPM
Give him Iphone in STPM
Give him a pirated beg of LV----->he will scold u back why not give him a sport car Ferrari?

Can see the pattern here?operation conditioning we called.

But if you understand this, Do you know what should we do when we encounter this?