Elisa-the Mantis

There always has this hot topic: guys should spend for girls when dating.

What do you think?

Some guys will think it is an honour to spend a girl , when dating out a girl. It is because men are the dominant side. However, what if your pocket only left rm10 and still wiling to spend the girl while you hide behind to eat bread?


I have been asking alot of girls for the above statement.

Some girls think it is a MUST for a guy to do so as it is to test their gentleman-ship and how generous is the guy.

However, the guy who wiling to spend for girl is it the one who is gentleman and more generous?

I doubt that.

The chemistry for this kind of relationship is kinda interesting.

Some girls think guys shouldnt spend to them as they also have the ability to pay their own bill.

But hide in their heart, who doesnt like someone to pay her bill, and even to fetch her back?

In another way round,

Girls always fight for gender equality, however, when come to this issue,
how many of them will really spend a guy for the date?


Very little.

For Elisha, I am the one who she spend for the 1st time(She told me!)


Actually, due to male egoism, i also like to spend for as it really unconsiously tell the girl i have the ability to take ca.re her .

However, world changed and I also changed my policy for that.


To show how gentleman is a guy, girls use this point to directly or indirectly ask a guy to spend.
I am not saying all the girls.

I am saying most of the girls.

I still can rememeber one of the past bad experience when i really do not have enough money to pay for the girl's bill and I have to tell her go dutch.

After that, her face changed from an angel to a devil who holding the spear, unwiling pay the bill, and told her friends that I am such a cheap stake who wanna date her out, woo her but not even have the "sincerity" to pay.

Wow, Such a nice story she had mentioned.

So i decided to blacklisted the girl as i found it is really lame.

Think it from deeper view.

If i am rich, does it mean i am compulsory to spend girl?

I do not spend a girl, does it means i dont have money?




I not understand. I only will spend those who are worth to.


See, this is Elisha -the Mantis!


Haha! really look like Praying Mantis right?